moonlightangel:

Its nice to no longer feel possessive over anything in my life. If it is meant to go it will go and if it is meant to stay it will stay– is the truth. And I am completely okay and at peace with that, I don’t want to dig my claws into anything anymore. I’ve learned that the people and the moments in my life were all supposed to happen to me. My life is supposed to occur this way. So if someone or something or someplace leaves I’ll let it be. The pain will sting but not as hard as before. Because ultimately, nothing is forever or truly mine. Basically, I will always be loyal but I will be okay if something leaves I won’t burn from it. 

mooodyy:

my favorite part about the Moon is she’s there for me even when I’m not there for me

elbiotipo:

Not to be fake deep Internet Historian here, but one of the best things tumblr has is the relative anonimity. You only need an email account, your age and an url, and you can instantly start posting, whetever travel photography or anime fanfictions or science blogging or just pretending to be Goku or whatever. Ustedes no se acuerdan porque son muy chicos, but once the entire internet was like that; in old forums and imageboards as long as you behaved like most people do, you didn’t need to tie your account towards your real life. A nickname was enough to participate in your interests, the way you liked, no other requirements.

But every single other major social media I know does the exact opposite. Your real name is considered your default user name. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and so on ask for personal information, and when I mean personal, I mean things like your CELLPHONE NUMBER AND LOCATION, just for registering. I wouldn’t be surprised if Facebook asks me for my DNI one of these days. They expose your likes, friendships, and interests to everyone. They thrive on connecting the internet to your real self, and for you to share personal stuff so advertisers can better target you (in real life). This oversharing, ultra-personal internet is not for everyone.

Not that I, or most people, have anything bad to hide. Sometimes you just want to write, or see fanart, or do tremendously stupid jokes, or enjoy your personal interests, without owing explanations to anyone or sharing them with people that aren’t interested. You don’t want your aunt who hasn’t talked to you in years like and comment your nerdy joke, or your crush knowing each and every single one of your interests, or your mom asking you why are you complaining about college or sharing communist memes. You just want to kick back and share the things that fascinate you with other people who are equally fascinated. Keeping in touch with your real life friends is fine, but not all people are in what you are, and that’s also fine, and that’s why the internet is so diverse and wonderful.

Now, I understand tumblr also does advertising, and also allowed the sharing about personal data. And anonimity brings up heavy issues that a minor internet forum can fix, but large social media companies cannot. And NSFW is a thorny issue, to say the least, especially when harmful content is involved. But I’m talking about the culture of self expression, about being whoever you want in the internet without owing anything to anyone, about collaborating and learning and participating in your interests freely without having to pay with your data. Owning your own art, writing without censorship, doing things because you and your friends like them, not to satisfy shareholders.

Tumblr may not be dead, but lately it looks so, and with it, dies the last of Internet 1.0. Old Geocities and Livejournal are dead, 4chan is under nazi occupation, and most 1.0 forums are either too especific or dying too. Soon the only thing remaining will be ‘social media’ basing on sharing, sharing, sharing, sharing, sharing, your personal data to other people (and advertisers) until you have no interests or things of your own, only marketable information.

And it sucks.

musingsuggestions:

my soul feels sick and i wish i knew what to do

(Source: bellemused)

pussylightlytoasted:

*pussy jumps*

Me: what is it girl??????

Reminders

cinnamon-roots:

*You can text first sometimes

*Those stretchmarks are no reason for you to not have fun 

*Drinking water makes you fell 150% better

*Don’t change your life for that boy or girl, your dreams still come first

*Sometimes you need to be firm about the things you truly want

*Deleting that number will feel cathartic

*It’s ok to take risks sometimes

*You should approach that person, they’d probably make a great friend

*It’s ok to like things that aren’t mainstream. It’s ok to like things that are mainstream.

*Learning is actually amazing

*Beauty does radiate from within

*Cutting your hair can be refreshing

*It’s ok to be your age without a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner

*Be unapologetic about the things you love. If it makes you happy it isn’t lame

*You deserve to be here just as much as everyone else does

*You’re capable of so much, you just need to believe in yourself

*Nobody has it all figured out

*Everyone makes mistakes

*You are loved

*You are a masterpiece.

*If you truly want that thing, you need to put your mind to it and plan and you’ll get it

*Try to let the negativity go

*You’re beautiful, inside and out

*You deserve it all

caramelsuggestions:

you have dreamy eyes. i see the stars in them.

imp:

sex isnt some kind of recreational activity people should be expected to be able to do with strangers or even just people they know but dont really care about. thats why everyone on here is like “sex sucks” when really all theyre doing is allowing somebody to use their body because its normalized. and its damaging on a spiritual level because its really not a purely physical act. that is unless you are somebody who can detach from it in that specific way which is fine and quite common anyway but most people arent like that if theyre the ones who are more prone to being degraded and dehumanized in those situations.

mjalti:

every time i massage moisturizer onto my face i feel kin with those evil witches in stories obsessed with youth and beauty….they did nothing wrong, ever,

dykecrimes:

Me, walking in the rain: *sobbing* Stevie Nicks was right…when the rain washes you clean…you will know……

(Source: sorcererdyke)